Are You Yourself ?

This is just a quick blog to those people out there that aren't the most confident of people.
 I've had life quite easy because I haven't really ever gone through anything major. I'm not here to brag at all but I had a great childhood and have never been bullied so I never really understand how people can become depressed over things.  I have a few friends that are scared to tell people things, afraid to stand up for themselves. Which is hard for me to understand because I'm quite a confident person.
One friend in particular puts herself down all the time because she doesn't look the same as someone else, or doesn't have the same figure as someone else. What she doesn't understand is that we all look different for a reason, I find that you shouldn't compare yourself to anyone else, because if god wanted us to be the same he would of made us all the same. Everyone's unique and it takes a while for people to understand that.
If you have boy troubles, if you think your not good enough because you don't think your pretty enough, or skinny enough then your wrong. Don't think that just because your different that your not good enough  Your fine the way you are. If your not happy the way you are then change it otherwise you might have to deal with it. ''Don't Be A Girl That Needs A Man, Be A Girl A Man Needs''.
If that person really likes you then they will accept you for who you are. But if they are embarrassed to be with you then they're not worth it. If that person doesn't like you because your not the 'barbie perfect' type then it's their loss.
Don't change for anyone, and be confident for who you are.
Much Love x

Unplanned Is The Way Forward

Today I thought I would write a lifestyle post. A bit of advice.
Sometimes the very best dates are the ones you have no idea are going to happen. Yet, whether you're a girly girl or not, you probably have some sort of process of preparing for a romantic date with a boy, but nowadays, I find myself on days with friends, family dates, not really on dates with lads, but that's fine with me. No matter how you much preparation you put into things, they will probably go wrong.

Back to my point, for me, if me and my friends plan something perfectly it's not as good compared with the days that you don't plan yet you end up having a lovely day.
I'm just saying, don't try and plan everything out in your head, (perfect days and perfect situations) because their will always be something that messes it up. Just take everything as it comes.

I've brought this subject up because I've recently fell in love with the film LOL and the TV drama Awkward, many of my friends say that Awkward resembles parts of my life, which I agree with (if you haven't seen it then check it out! new series starts on Tuesday April 16). Whereas LOL must be the cutest film ever, I just love it so much. It's about Lola (Miley Cyrus) and her love life and how she falls in love with a lad called Kyle (Douglas Booth) - (HOT).. it's a perfect relationship by the end, and a typical way of falling in love. Trust me it is a cute film, a real chick flick. ( I recommend you watch it ).
My point is that everyone thinks that their love life is going to turn out like all these amazing love films, such as The Notebook. Films are written by scriptwriters, then can make perfect moments happen whereas in real life it doesn't happen like that. If you single or in a relationship, don't expect it to be perfect like all these films. Also don't think your relationship with someone is wrong just because it's different to what happens in films.

^...a picture of me and friends having fun last year...^
If anyone has any ideas on posts I should write, please let me know in the comments. 
A spring outfits will be up soon!

ABC.. Advice

ABC Advice
I haven't blogged in almost a week because I've been quite busy and I'm never too sure what to write, tonight I had an idea. There are 26 letters in the english alphabet so I am going to give you 26 pieces of advice / quotes. Sorry it's so long.
Some quotes are good, some are cheesy, some are daft, but does it really matter?
If your a typical teenager then you can probably relate to a lot of my quotes of advice.

A.1. ''Don't Be A Girl That Needs A Man, Be A Girl That A Man Needs'' I think this is a good quote because there is way too many fake girls out there today, people wear too much make-up, act like bitches and are just fake, nobody likes people like that.
B.2. ''People Change'' A lot of people think that everyones personalities will stay the same, but of course they won't everyone changes! People change so that you can learn to let go, even though eventually you might find out that you can only trust yourself.
C.3. No matter how detailed you plan things, they will probably go wrong. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right. Sometimes even good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
D.4. ''Happy Girls Are The Prettiest'' I think that this quote explains itself. Chin up and don't let anyone bring you down. 
E.5. 'Don't Judge A Book By It's Cover'' Everyone judges eachother, just by looking at eachother and If you say that you don;t then your a liar, but  every single person has their own story, so don't judge someone until you know what they have been through.
F.6. ''Love The Life You Live'' You've really only got one shot at life, so deal with everything that gets thrown at you, no matter how hard it is, you can get through it.You shouldn't wish for a completely different life.
G.7. LIVE.LAUGH.LOVE, it's a little motto people should live by. Three words, but it explains so much. You should live your life because you never know what's around the corner. You should laugh, have good times and laughed at the people that looked down on you and love, who you want, whenever you want, but you know that sometimes everyone gets hurt. Its a part of life.
H.8. There isn't such a word as 'Hate'. Hate is just Jealousy. When people hate on you, it's because you have something that they want.
I.9. Don't waste your time trying to change the past. It's already happened and you can't change that. Life wasn't made for you to travel backwards. Look forward to what's ahead for you.
J.10. ''Be Thankful'' I bet your life could be so much worse, but it's not. So treasure it.
K.11. ''Count Your Smiles Instead Of Your Tears And Count Your Courage Instead Of Your Fears'' Be happy as who you are, if they are a true friend then they will except you no matter what. You shouldn't change for anyone.
L.12. '' I Like You'' Do not be ashamed to say it. It has to come out. You should tell them, if you don't want a reply then don't ask for one. Its better to get it off your heart before you get hurt. Falling for that person may never of been planned, but all you should ask is for them to respect how you feel.
M.13. Life is no storybook. No matter how many films you watch, your life will probably be completely different to love stories. Films are written by scriptwriters, they can make up anything they want, you've got to understand that in real life, it's never that easy.
N.14. ''Every Second Is A Chance To Turn Your Life Around'' if there is something you want to change, then go for it, don't be afraid of the answer, and never overthink things that you can't change.
O.15. ''My Life'' Everyones life is there own, make choices and decisions by yourself, depending on what you want out of it.
P.16. Success- no matter how hard things get don't quit. People who succeed, have gone through mistakes but they have carried on..they don't quit.
Q.17. Family are so important, even more important than friends. Friends come and go, but family has to stay. Deep down they will be there, no matter what you have done.
R.18. ''When People Stop Talking To You, They Start Talking About You'' when people walk out your life for no reason, you shouldn't let them back. Even if they come back with an excuse.
S.19. ''SMILE'' let everyone know that your a better and stronger person, you shouldn't have anything to frown about.
T.20.  ''Karma'' What goes around, comes around. I believe in Karma. If someone is nice to you then you should be nice back. If they bitch about you, be careful what you say.. Karma will get them, but it could get you too.
U.21.  If you are brave enough to say 'GoodBye' to someone/something, then you will be rewarded with a new 'Hello'
V.22. ''Don't Compare Yourself To Anyone Else In The World'' you are who you are for a reason, and you shouldn't have to change that but if you do compare yourself to other people then your are insulting yourself. It's better to be beautiful on the inside than on the out.
W.23. ''If Your Thinking Of Giving Up, Ask Yourself Why You Held On For So Long'' it's a true quote, just because things get tougher doesn't always mean that you should just take the easy option and quit.
X.24. ''Sometimes The Heart Sees What Is Invisible To The Eye'' looks aren't everything, personality will always shine through. 
Y.25. In your head, you spend most of your time remembering old memories and thinking of perfect situations. Sometimes that's good, but why not go out and make those situations happen? You should have no regrets. What have you got to lose?
Z.26. He's Funny. He's Adorable. He's Sweet. He's Loving. He's Awkward. He's Caring. He's Beautiful. He's Awesome. He's Perfect.
I didn't mention any name then, but HE popped into your head didn't he?

Thanks for reading, comment below and let me know of any quotes you like? Or if you would like me to do an updated version using letter for letter advice.?